Particle stability?

If a particle and gravity is caused by a part of space set in spin or wobbling, then the construct of a stable particle is interesting indeed.
Given the right circumstances, any particle would be unstable. And it makes a lot of sense then, that a disturbance as small as an anti neutrino is enough to cause an unstable particle to decay.
Mapping small particles with different em wavelengths in pulses with multiple waves at a time - could be another way forward towards understanding the basics of building particles.